I never feel unhappy having a son, in fact we’re (my husb and myself) very happy with our production (haha), our SON. And I NEVER trivialise my son, NOT AT ALL. You’re not me, so don’t assume me. Really. I give up telling people who doubt me, who judge me, Japheth is MY priority. It’s a mistake at first to have sex without protection, but I’m not going to dwell on it, but improve the situation, since Japheth is my child, my life. How a mother feels, I feel the same. Don’t despise. Don’t tell me anymore you’re not, because you are, indirectly, unknowingly. If you really aren’t, you are still giving me (and others who have a child unprepared) the impression. This life of mine though different from your beautiful life, I’m working really hard for the best of my husband, myself and not to even mention my son. It doesn’t work to give people the impression you’re looking down on teenage mums. If no solution, then let me do what I can for the best of my family. I’m not regretting, but working on a solution to make Japheth’s life the best.
You don’t have the rights to make assumptions about mummy Jingle. All the “I think, I feel” are too opinionated, because you simply don’t know how I feel. Those who has a child at this age (like Evelyn), she understands the mother part of me inside out. And I’m so very sure, she will never say whatever you’ve said to me, because she understands. Don’t say things like, it’s a mistake of the past, you should or shouldn’t this and that. Please, we’re working on the situation, what’s the point of saying redundant stuffs when we can’t turn back time? I can’t regret and thus, once again, I’m working very hard, I really am.
